Unyime Etim
3 min readDec 3, 2021

How I Got Rid of Premature Ejaculation pt. 1

By Unyime Etim

If I ever felt broken and pained about any aspect of my life, it was my inability to enjoy sexual intercourse with the woman of my interest.

After I rounded up my one minute and twenty seconds sexual encounter, I could always see it in the eyes of my partner that she wanted more but there was nothing I could do. Some would try to suck me till I became hard again but I had no control because I always ejaculated as quicky as the first. At some point, I had to come to face the fact that I was been cheated on but as I said, I could not do anything about it. The best I could do was to deal with this ‘shameful ordeal’ as I had come to term it, was to stay away from relationships and sex.

I abstained from sex for a long time to the point of even turning down interesting females who were interested in me all because I knew what the outcome would be like. Better to make it seem like ‘I was difficult to get’ than to be termed ‘a one minute man’.

For year’s I went on like this until I decided to seek solution. First, I started with medications that would help me delay ejaculation, but I always felt like I cheated because every time I had to perform the same miracle again, I was lacking which always made my partner wonder what exactly was going on. If I attempted sex without enhancement medication, it was always the same outcome. The enhancement drugs were true to their words except that the chemical combination and the harm it could cause after long term use made it more difficult to keep up.

Life wasn’t funny at this point. At some point, I felt like it was because I started masturbating at an early stage in life which was why I had this sexual dysfunction. I masturbsted first around age 13. When I was 17–18, I recall I was masturbating everyday and had lots of random sex with hookers and they were always short. I am 34 now and it didn’t seem to help as looking back at the past didn’t make any difference. For starters, I stopped masturbating after I had become informed from articles online that made it clear to me that one of the downsides of masturbation was premature ejaculation. Still I had to improve sexually otherwise how could I even contemplate marriage?

I did lots of research and found solutions that made exceptional differences in my sexual life. I will tell you more about it. I found this amazing remedy that worked like magic. Do you want to know exactly what I did naturally to help me improve in bed and boost my self confidence? I discovered parts of this solution myself and they are natural.

I will continue with the next episode soon… I am hungry😉

Just stick around, I promise it’s worth it…

Sign up to discover human stories that deepen your understanding of the world.

Free

Distraction-free reading. No ads.

Organize your knowledge with lists and highlights.

Tell your story. Find your audience.

Membership

Read member-only stories

Support writers you read most

Earn money for your writing

Listen to audio narrations

Read offline with the Medium app

Unyime Etim
Unyime Etim

Written by Unyime Etim

Writer || Crypto Enthusiast || Artiste

No responses yet

Write a response